When You Think Of Me, Think Of Me Well

If you have something important to say, say it. If you have nothing to say, then wait until you have something of value to say.

Lately I have been feeling that this blog has moved too far away from its original purpose. For that reason, I am going to say goodbye for a bit. This does not mean I will not blog again. It means that I need to regroup and figure out what I want to say and how I want the blog to be remembered.

I will maybe start over with a new blog with a new purpose, or I may decide to restart this one.

Right now, I feel like I have nothing of value to say. I always want to be the person who knows when to walk away and not keep going because my ego demands it

The ideas shared and the community formed here have taught me so much. I will always be indebted to all of you for showing me what friendship means. It has been tough to write this post without crying. I never wanted the good times to end.

All good things must come to an end. Now it is time for this blog to do that too. Life moves on, seasons change, relationships come and go.

I want to leave you all with this thought from my favorite band, The Beatles – “All these places have their moments, with lovers and friends I still can recall. Some are dead and some are living. In my life, I loved them all”

Know that I love and thank each and every one of you from the bottom of my heart.

My last line from my Dad’s eulogy is what I want to leave you with – “When you think of me, think of me well.”

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24 thoughts on “When You Think Of Me, Think Of Me Well

    • You are such an inspiration to me Danny. I will never in my life forget the feeling I had when my guest post went live on your blog. My feet did not touch the ground that day. For that, and many other things I thank you x

  1. You know enough about yourself and blogging that I am sure this is the right thing at this time for you. However, I know you’ll be back because I know you love it, we love it and the world needs your authentic and helpful voice. I look forward to the metamorphosis! Much love, Mark

    • Mark,

      Thank you so much. You are one of the kindest gentlemen I have ever had the good fortune to meet. I look forward to being back in the swing of things with new content soon.

  2. Second ‘farewell’ post I’ve read today and one of a few lately; here’s hoping it’s just a break and not forever and that I’ll see you around the social webs. And of course, wishing you nothing but the best of everything. FWIW.

  3. I’m with you Nancy! Said goodbye to mine a bit ago and it feels great. I realized that nothing new would open up if I didn’t let go. Letting go was hard because it had been a routine to write and to share for so long (2 years isn’t that long to some, but it was VERY long for me!). I’m sure you’ll be happy and successful with whatever you do!!

    • Nothing new would open up if I didn’t let go – that is perfect Betsy! I have been trying to keep pushing even though I was not “feeling” my content anymore. So glad to hear others in the same situation. It makes me see I am not so unique.

  4. Do what you gotta do, but you will be missed. My ego won’t let me shut it down…..:). Imagine that………..

    I’m having fun w/ mine and hopefully you can get back to a place where you have purpose AND fun.

    Good luck on your journey; keep us updated.

    You know where to find us.

    • You, my friend had the second highest traffic day on this little blog. :) You have always been a great friend and you know where to find me too!

      Hop;e all is swell in the Sunshine State!

  5. Listen to what your heart says and it will take you wonderful places! Blogging should be something that you have fun along the way with; so take a break and see how it goes! You will be missed but I am sure you’ll be back with a bang! :)

    Take Care!

  6. I was fine till you said you feel you have nothing of value to say. That is the most ridiculous statement I’ve seen on the internet, and I’m going to have to beat you up. Otherwise, I support you in whatever you decide.

  7. I know you’ll make your return when the timing and circumstances are right. It’s always interesting to see how bloggers evolve over time and make adjustments to what they want to do and achieve with their writing. Lord knows I’ve done it and will continue doing so.

    You certainly have a voice – and we need more of it. :)

    • I am so happy to hear that other bloggers have done the same thing. It further solidifies my decision as the right one for me. I know I won’t be able to stay away for long.

      How about a Snoopy dance?

  8. I hope you will be back I loved your blog and was so happy to see you blogging again. Please come back when you’re ready.

  9. Hi Nancy,

    Sounds like this is the right thing for you to do at the moment, but as a writer I know it will be hard to stay away for long. You’re one of the first people I met on my blogging journey, and one of the nicest. Anyway I’d say best of luck, but I know you’ll be back and I look forward to seeing you again in our little digital utopia :)

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